If you're sexually active, consider taking penetrative sex off the menu for a while! 

Hear us out: this exercise will encourage you to find new ways to be intimate and sensual with a partner, strengthen your bond, and prolong your sexual experience as you enjoy every aspect of each other.

To help you get started, we gathered some of our favorite non-penetrative tips and ideas. 

1. Self-pleasure, together.

If you're a fan of self-pleasure, why not try it with a partner? Not only is it an experience packed with pleasure, but it can also serve as a demonstration of how each of you likes to be touched. 

2. Have a hot, long make-out session.

Slow down, enjoy being close to one another, and remember: kissing is not only reserved for the lips. There are erogenous zones all over your body just waiting to be explored.

3. Take a bath, for two.

Yes, it's messy and could get uncomfortable, but hear us out. Taking a steamy bath together could be a fun way to get vulnerable and explore each other's bodies more sensually.

4. Use your hands.

Grab some lube (Sayl is a great option), go slowly, and don't forget to check in with your partner to ask where and how they want to be touched next. There's so much to be learned and uncovered about each other's bodies!

5. Try a temperature-play massage.

This can help you bond with your partner and release any tension. If you're feeling playful, introduce items with varying temperature degrees, like ice, for a more sensual experience.

6. Introduce pleasure products.

This is an incredibly fun way to prioritize pleasure and learn about your partner's preferences. If you're interested in non-penetrative pleasure products, check out Deem. 

Remember

Taking a break from penetrative sex is not about denying pleasure; instead, it's about exploring a whole new world of sensuality and connection with your partner.

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